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Many times in life we are faced with situations that don’t present us with a clear “right” or “wrong” decision. When it comes to divorce, it sometimes seems as if there is no right decision. Emotions run high, couples work hard at oneupmanship or baiting each other into fighting; they look for ways to hurt…

Here are a number of resources available to men (and women) going through divorce that we are proud to associate with and refer to you. For MEN: B Organized, Inc. – specializes in Professional Organizing and Transition Management. They have been supporting individuals during trying times, like  divorce, for over 11 years. B Organized separates the emotions…

Dealing with an emotional roller-coaster like divorce can mentally and physically exhaust anyone. There are moments, even days (hopefully not weeks!) when it seems like you can’t bear any more pain. You’re not alone! Luckily, you’ve found this website and my process for Surviving the Fog of Divorce™. The process is based on my real-life…

If you’re a man dealing with the prospect or the reality of a divorce, you might be wondering, “How strong do I have to be,” and “What exactly does it mean to be strong?” I am reminded of these questions as I was thinking about some old forgotten “love letters” and cards I found while…

Going through a divorce sucks, even for a man. There. I said it. But you were thinking it. So how’s that supposed to help you? Actually, two ways.  >>>>>>>>>

If you’re a man dealing with an unexpected divorce and looking for help or resources, click this link to watch my first appearance on the Manhattan-based cable TV show, Life Coach TV. I’m a trained and certified coach who has also been through the actual pain of a real divorce. I created a process based…

Thanksgiving has just ended and the (American) holiday season is getting into full swing. This is typically the time of year when we count our blessings and give thanks for them. If you’re in the midst of a troubled relationship, however, you may be thinking, “What blessings? What do I have to be thankful for?”…

It’s November and that means the fall and winter holidays are fast approaching. If you’re in the midst of a separation or moving into divorce territory, this can be one of the most dreaded times of the year. Why? Because it’s a time for traditions and family and laughter and celebration — some of the…

It seems everywhere you look lately, there are signs of confusion and doubt about the economy and where things are heading. Confusion causes fear and fear causes people to make bad decisions. (If you’re interested in the brain science behind that, give me a call at 516.216.4233). Couple this with the fact that money issues…

Surviving the Fog of Divorce: A Divorce Coaching Program for Men is such a unique offering, you might have some questions about what it is and how it works. Please take some time to read this Question & Answer interview with founder/creator Paul McGinniss before contacting/hiring him. 1. How long have you been coaching? I…